Raising men is an easy task for any woman. However, there are some secrets on how best to stimulate men and how to maintain that arousal. There are many secrets in this - this is a woman's skillful actions during conversation, gentle touches and kisses. Psychologists and doctors are willing to share their knowledge with women on how to arouse men’s spirits.
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All men love their eyes. Everyone knows this, therefore, in the process of their passion, women’s appearance and behavior play a big role. The easiest way to stimulate a man is for a woman to wear clothes she likes. It can be a professional uniform and beautiful underwear.
Do not forget about the "main weapon" of every woman, from which men are always excited - about the naked body. It is important to remember that light erotica is better suited for this purpose than a lack of clothing and underwear.
In addition, there are some simple tricks that all men love:
- shoes with high heels;
- sexy lingerie that accentuates the shape of the figure;
- carelessly styled hair;
- tight clothing, including latex;
- translucent clothing.
Talking about what turns a man on, it is very important to remember an important success factor - the man himself must be in the mood for sex and not feel tired or frustrated. His mood and well -being should be explained before the appeal process.
The gentle words and whispers of the beloved woman greatly stimulate sexual desire. At the same time, the phrase can be sensual and abusive, passionate. It is very important to take into account the characteristics of your man - many of them have a negative attitude towards this form of appeal.
appropriate foreplay
There is a widespread myth among women that men have a negative attitude towards foreplay and even become nervous during this time. However, this is imaginary, as the male body is very responsive to gentle touches and kisses.
The question of how to touch men properly is very complicated, because everyone has their own erogenous zone, which can only be discovered through trial and error. In almost everyone, the following body parts have increased sensitivity: earlobes, lips, neck surface, wrists and, of course, genitals. Their simple stimulation with a fingertip or a kiss will lead to a strong attraction from the man.
Separately, it is worth mentioning the strong erogenous zone, which for some reason is ignored by many people:
- the skin along the spine, especially in the neck and lower back, is highly responsive to touch and kisses;
- in excited men, the palate responds well to the touch of the tongue, leading to a marked increase in stimulation;
- the skin between the navel and the genitals on the abdomen is another clear example of a "forgotten" stimulus point on the human body.
Appropriate stimulation for the erogenous zone before intercourse and a woman’s special behavior is the answer to the question of how to achieve continuous male stimulation without the involvement of any unusual medications or drugs.
skilled touch
Touching the body is the most affordable and obvious way to stimulate libido in men. There are certain tips for this stimulation technique that will work in almost all cases.
As noted above, it is the back, including the part between the shoulder blades, that is very sensitive to any stimuli. Thus, for most couples, foreplay begins with a relatively gentle erotic sequence.
Don’t forget about the buttocks, which respond best to small blows or pinches.
Well -known libido stimulation points, such as the neck, ears and wrists, may not be mentioned at all, as many couples know about them and practice them in their foreplay.
The inner thighs, especially at the top, stimulate sexual desire perfectly in men with a gentle and loving touch.
The number of erogenous points in a particular person is always individual. It is possible to answer the question of which of them is the strongest only with direct confirmation in advance. A woman should be open and always discuss such topics with the other half.
Is it possible to excite a man from afar?
From what can a man be excited at a distance, when the "game" takes place in a public place or in nature? The most effective way in this case is the appearance of a girl, which can attract and stimulate libido. However, it is not so easy to get excited at a glance. A woman should practice first in front of a mirror and understand how she looks with one or another facial expression.
In addition to this look, throwing out a few phrases is also good. In this case, the sound of the woman’s voice and her intonation will be very important. Such skills are very easy to develop with regular practice.
Any man, even the most domestic, is quickly aroused in response to several different stimuli: a woman’s appearance, her behavior and speech, touch during foreplay. Skilled women can cause strong sexual desire even with one glance or a few phrases. It is important to remember that the secret of success in raising men is to constantly hone your skills and talk to your loved ones.